tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2486755221297374803.post3629812570219390545..comments2012-02-28T13:33:24.446-08:00Comments on Voice in the Shadow: It's hard to love yourself when others hate youShadowVoicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15079903152939911425noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2486755221297374803.post-27178908625346096132010-07-01T21:29:27.804-07:002010-07-01T21:29:27.804-07:00Read your comment on the blog just now and rushed ...Read your comment on the blog just now and rushed right over. I am SO sorry you have been through this. You absolutely did not deserve it. What he did wasn't right. The way its been justified is even worse. From what you've said, he does not sound like a safe person. You are right, you have to protect youself. You have to keep toxic people out of your life and erect good boundaries. Don't feel guilty about removing the friendship of people like that. If they want to repent in the future, thats another situation...<br /><br />So you didn't ask for my advice, but I feel so strongly about how we should treat each other and how we should protect ourselves that I wanted to share. I hope you will make it to the other side of this very, very dark tunnel. Our community will be there for you if you want to come share in the forums. Much love.Recovering Alumnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08118927101030203407noreply@blogger.com